The wedding night…

So it’s your wedding night, you know what is supposed to happen. But does it? Probably not. The day has been exhausting and all you want to do is climb into bed, snuggle up and celebrate in the traditional fashion. Trouble is, you are so tired that you fall on your face on the bed and start snoring.

Unless you have followed a traditional route to your marriage bed, the likelihood of having a good sexual relationship is very high. So, falling asleep on your wedding night is not such a big deal. For those people I suggest a Honeymoon Morning instead. Nothing to say that you have to perform athletic sex on the night when you can sleep in late and spend all the next day making up for it.

For those cultures that have traditions concerning the marriage bed, there is no option. What must be done, must be done, tired or not.

I am a big fan of Kama Sutra Products. They are romantic and gentle and if used correctly can wake up the most tired individual from lethargic to passionate in a very short time. Sex should not be obligatory on your wedding night. But if you want to stay traditional and just don’t have the wherewithal, I suggest these products. One of the best is the Honey Dust. It comes as an edible powder with a feather applicator. It’s impossible not to relax and drift away. It used to be available in just the honey flavour, but I notice that now it has many others that smell and taste great.

For those who want to celebrate in style, I suggest the lovers paintbox or the bedtime box..in fact any of the gift sets are great, with bedside sized collections of sensual products. Brides should leave the box on the pillow and see what he comes up with.

A great gift from the wedding party to the couple or a fun addition and perfect ending to your day. Get them at KamaSutra.com

The basics….before you start..

There are a few basic requirements that are often overlooked but they will crop up during the event planning. Be prepared by having all the information at hand and neatly filed and accessible.
Legalities. Is your union legal? Check state laws. Are same sex unions legal. What are blood test and physical requirements? Are there time restrictions for filing? Are there restrictions for divorced couples in the timing? When do I report my name change? What information and legal documentation do I need to provide when applying for my license? Am I old enough? Am  related to my partner too closely?
Religious requirements. If a religious ceremony you need to find out if you meet all the criteria for the ceremony. Some churches require premarital counseling. Some do not allow divorced couples to marry. Some will not officiate at an outdoor venue. Find out, and make alternate arrangements if necessary. Interfaith ministers and officiants will perform religious ceremonies in a manner consistent with your spiritual needs rather than the dogma of your faith.
Destination weddings. Check the legal requirements of the country or state that you are getting married in. They may differ tremendously from your own. Is the marriage considered legal in your home country if performed there? \
Marrying a foreign national. Is this legal? Do I have all my documentation in place? Will my spouse have to leave and apply for immigration documentation or can they stay and file here?
Prenuptial agreements. Do I need one? Should I talk to a lawyer? Why are they used? If you have family inheritance or assets that you do not want to lose for you family in the event of a divorce or death of your spouse, get a prenuptial agreement. This is essential in the case of family assets, as the family of you intended spouse will also have claims to them in certain circumstances. Often used to protect children from a first marriage.